1Joab, the son of Zeruiah, knew that the king longed to see Absalom.2So Joab sent someone to Tekoa to have a wise woman brought back from there. Joab said to her, ‘Pretend you are filled with sadness. Put on the rough clothing people wear when they’re sad. Don’t use any makeup. Act like a woman who has spent many days mourning for someone who has died.3Then go to the king. Give him the message I’m about to give you.’ And Joab told her what to say.4The woman from Tekoa went to the king. She bowed down with her face towards the ground. She did it to show him respect. She said, ‘Your Majesty, please help me!’5The king asked her, ‘What’s bothering you?’ She said, ‘I’m a widow. My husband is dead.6I had two sons. They got into a fight with each other in a field. No one was there to separate them. One of my sons struck down the other one and killed him.7Now my whole family group has risen up against me. They say, “Hand over the one who struck down his brother. Then we can put him to death for killing his brother. That will also get rid of the one who will receive the family property.” They want to kill the only living son I have left, just as someone would put out a burning coal. That would leave my husband without any son on the face of the earth to carry on the family name.’8The king said to the woman, ‘Go home. I’ll give an order to make sure you are taken care of.’9But the woman from Tekoa said to him, ‘You are my king and master. Please pardon me and my family. You and your royal family won’t be guilty of doing anything wrong.’10The king replied, ‘If people give you any trouble, bring them to me. They won’t bother you again.’11She said, ‘Please pray to the LORD your God. Pray that he will keep our nearest male relative from killing my other son. Then my son shan’t be destroyed.’ ‘You can be sure that the LORD lives,’ the king said. ‘And you can be just as sure that not one hair of your son’s head will fall to the ground.’12Then the woman said, ‘King David, please let me say something else to you.’ ‘Go ahead’, he replied.13The woman said, ‘You are the king. So why have you done something that brings so much harm on God’s people? When you do that, you hand down a sentence against yourself. You won’t let the son you drove away come back.14All of us must die. We are like water spilled on the ground. It can’t be put back into the jar. But that is not what God desires. Instead, he finds a way to bring back anyone who was driven away from him.15‘King David, I’ve come here to say this to you now. I’ve done it because people have made me afraid. I thought, “I’ll go and speak to the king. Perhaps he’ll do what I’m asking.16A man is trying to separate me and my son from the property God gave us. Perhaps the king will agree to save me from that man.”17‘So now I’m saying, “May what you have told me prevent that man from doing what he wants. You are like an angel of God. You know what is good and what is evil. May the LORD your God be with you.” ’18Then the king said to the woman, ‘I’m going to ask you a question. I want you to tell me the truth.’ ‘Please ask me anything you want to,’ the woman said.19The king asked, ‘Joab told you to say all of this, didn’t he?’ The woman answered, ‘What you have told me is exactly right. And that’s just as sure as you are alive. It’s true that Joab instructed me to do this. He told me everything he wanted me to say.20He did it to change the way things now are. You are as wise as an angel of God. You know everything that happens in the land.’21Later the king said to Joab, ‘All right. I’ll do what you want. Go. Bring back the young man Absalom.’22Joab bowed down with his face towards the ground. He did it to honour the king. And he asked God to bless the king. He said, ‘You are my king and master. Today I know that you are pleased with me. You have given me what I asked for.’23Then Joab went to Geshur. He brought Absalom back to Jerusalem.24But the king said, ‘He must go to his own house. I don’t want him to come and see me.’ So Absalom went to his own house. He didn’t go to see the king.25In the whole land of Israel there wasn’t any man as handsome as Absalom was. That’s why everyone praised him. From the top of his head to the bottom of his feet he didn’t have any flaws.26He used to cut his hair once a year when it became too heavy for him. Then he would weigh it. It weighed 2.5 kilograms in keeping with the standard weights used in the palace.27Three sons and a daughter were born to Absalom. His daughter’s name was Tamar. She became a beautiful woman.28Absalom lived in Jerusalem for two years without going to see the king.29Then Absalom sent for Joab. He wanted to send Joab to the king. But Joab refused to come to Absalom. So Absalom sent for him a second time. But Joab still refused to come.30Then Absalom said to his servants, ‘Joab’s field is next to mine. He has barley growing there. Go and set it on fire.’ So Absalom’s servants set the field on fire.31Joab finally went to Absalom’s house. He said to Absalom, ‘Why did your servants set my field on fire?’32Absalom said to Joab, ‘I sent a message to you. I said, “Come here. I want to send you to the king. I want you to ask him for me, ‘Why did you bring me back from Geshur? I would be better off if I were still there!’ ” Now then, I want to go and see the king. If I’m guilty of doing anything wrong, let him put me to death.’33So Joab went to the king and told him that. Then the king sent for Absalom. He came in and bowed down to the king with his face towards the ground. And the king kissed Absalom.
2 Samuel 14
English Standard Version
Absalom Returns to Jerusalem
1Now Joab the son of Zeruiah knew that the king’s heart went out to Absalom. (2Sa 13:39)2And Joab sent to Tekoa and brought from there a wise woman and said to her, “Pretend to be a mourner and put on mourning garments. Do not anoint yourself with oil, but behave like a woman who has been mourning many days for the dead. (Ru 3:3; 2Sa 12:20; 2Ch 11:6; 2Ch 20:20; Am 1:1)3Go to the king and speak thus to him.” So Joab put the words in her mouth. (Ex 4:15; 2Sa 14:19)4When the woman of Tekoa came to the king, she fell on her face to the ground and paid homage and said, “Save me, O king.” (2Sa 1:2; 2Ki 6:26)5And the king said to her, “What is your trouble?” She answered, “Alas, I am a widow; my husband is dead. (2Sa 12:1)6And your servant had two sons, and they quarreled with one another in the field. There was no one to separate them, and one struck the other and killed him.7And now the whole clan has risen against your servant, and they say, ‘Give up the man who struck his brother, that we may put him to death for the life of his brother whom he killed.’ And so they would destroy the heir also. Thus they would quench my coal that is left and leave to my husband neither name nor remnant on the face of the earth.” (Ge 45:7; Mt 21:38; Mr 12:7; Lu 20:14)8Then the king said to the woman, “Go to your house, and I will give orders concerning you.”9And the woman of Tekoa said to the king, “On me be the guilt, my lord the king, and on my father’s house; let the king and his throne be guiltless.” (1Sa 25:24)10The king said, “If anyone says anything to you, bring him to me, and he shall never touch you again.”11Then she said, “Please let the king invoke the Lord your God, that the avenger of blood kill no more, and my son be not destroyed.” He said, “As the Lord lives, not one hair of your son shall fall to the ground.” (Nu 35:19; Nu 35:21; De 19:12; Ru 3:13; 1Sa 14:45; Ac 27:34)12Then the woman said, “Please let your servant speak a word to my lord the king.” He said, “Speak.”13And the woman said, “Why then have you planned such a thing against the people of God? For in giving this decision the king convicts himself, inasmuch as the king does not bring his banished one home again. (Jud 20:2; 2Sa 13:37)14We must all die; we are like water spilled on the ground, which cannot be gathered up again. But God will not take away life, and he devises means so that the banished one will not remain an outcast. (Nu 35:15; Nu 35:25; Nu 35:28; 1Sa 7:6)15Now I have come to say this to my lord the king because the people have made me afraid, and your servant thought, ‘I will speak to the king; it may be that the king will perform the request of his servant.16For the king will hear and deliver his servant from the hand of the man who would destroy me and my son together from the heritage of God.’ (1Sa 26:19)17And your servant thought, ‘The word of my lord the king will set me at rest,’ for my lord the king is like the angel of God to discern good and evil. The Lord your God be with you!” (1Sa 29:9; 2Sa 19:27)18Then the king answered the woman, “Do not hide from me anything I ask you.” And the woman said, “Let my lord the king speak.”19The king said, “Is the hand of Joab with you in all this?” The woman answered and said, “As surely as you live, my lord the king, one cannot turn to the right hand or to the left from anything that my lord the king has said. It was your servant Joab who commanded me; it was he who put all these words in the mouth of your servant. (1Sa 1:26; 2Sa 14:3)20In order to change the course of things your servant Joab did this. But my lord has wisdom like the wisdom of the angel of God to know all things that are on the earth.” (2Sa 14:17)21Then the king said to Joab, “Behold now, I grant this; go, bring back the young man Absalom.”22And Joab fell on his face to the ground and paid homage and blessed the king. And Joab said, “Today your servant knows that I have found favor in your sight, my lord the king, in that the king has granted the request of his servant.” (1Ki 8:66)23So Joab arose and went to Geshur and brought Absalom to Jerusalem. (2Sa 13:38)24And the king said, “Let him dwell apart in his own house; he is not to come into my presence.” So Absalom lived apart in his own house and did not come into the king’s presence.25Now in all Israel there was no one so much to be praised for his handsome appearance as Absalom. From the sole of his foot to the crown of his head there was no blemish in him. (De 28:35; Job 2:7; Isa 1:6)26And when he cut the hair of his head (for at the end of every year he used to cut it; when it was heavy on him, he cut it), he weighed the hair of his head, two hundred shekels[1] by the king’s weight. (Eze 44:20)27There were born to Absalom three sons, and one daughter whose name was Tamar. She was a beautiful woman. (2Sa 18:18)28So Absalom lived two full years in Jerusalem, without coming into the king’s presence.29Then Absalom sent for Joab, to send him to the king, but Joab would not come to him. And he sent a second time, but Joab would not come.30Then he said to his servants, “See, Joab’s field is next to mine, and he has barley there; go and set it on fire.” So Absalom’s servants set the field on fire.[2]31Then Joab arose and went to Absalom at his house and said to him, “Why have your servants set my field on fire?”32Absalom answered Joab, “Behold, I sent word to you, ‘Come here, that I may send you to the king, to ask, “Why have I come from Geshur? It would be better for me to be there still.” Now therefore let me go into the presence of the king, and if there is guilt in me, let him put me to death.’” (1Sa 20:8; 2Sa 14:23)33Then Joab went to the king and told him, and he summoned Absalom. So he came to the king and bowed himself on his face to the ground before the king, and the king kissed Absalom.