1These are the sayings of King Lemuel. His mother taught them to him. These sayings came from God.2Listen, my son! Listen, my very own son! Listen, you who are the answer to my prayers!3Don’t waste your strength on women. Don’t waste it on those who destroy kings.4Lemuel, it isn’t good for kings to drink wine. It isn’t good for rulers to long for beer.5If they do, they might drink and forget what has been commanded. They might take away the rights of all those who are treated badly.6Let beer be for those who are dying. Let wine be for those who are sad and troubled.7Let them drink and forget how poor they are. Let them forget their suffering.8Speak up for those who can’t speak for themselves. Speak up for the rights of all those who are poor.9Speak up and judge fairly. Speak up for the rights of those who are poor and needy.10Who can find an excellent woman? She is worth far more than rubies.11Her husband trusts her completely. She gives him all the important things he needs.12She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.13She chooses wool and flax. She loves to work with her hands.14She is like the ships of traders. She brings her food from far away.15She gets up while it is still night. She provides food for her family. She also gives some to her female servants.16She considers a field and buys it. She uses some of the money she earns to plant a vineyard.17She gets ready to work hard. Her arms are strong.18She sees that her trading earns a lot of money. Her lamp doesn’t go out at night.19With one hand she holds the wool. With the other she spins the thread.20She opens her arms to those who are poor. She reaches out her hands to those who are needy.21When it snows, she’s not afraid for her family. All of them are dressed in the finest clothes.22She makes her own bed coverings. She is dressed in fine linen and purple clothes.23Her husband is respected at the city gate. There he takes his seat among the elders of the land.24She makes linen clothes and sells them. She supplies belts to the traders.25She puts on strength and honour as if they were her clothes. She can laugh at the days that are coming.26She speaks wisely. She teaches faithfully.27She watches over family matters. She is busy all the time.28Her children stand up and call her blessed. Her husband also rises up, and he praises her.29He says, ‘Many women do excellent things. But you are better than all the others.’30Charm can fool you. Beauty fades. But a woman who has respect for the LORD should be praised.31Give her honour for all that her hands have done. Let everything she has done bring praise to her at the city gate.
Proverbs 31
English Standard Version
The Words of King Lemuel
1The words of King Lemuel. An oracle that his mother taught him:2What are you doing, my son?[1] What are you doing, son of my womb? What are you doing, son of my vows? (1Sa 1:27; Isa 49:15)3Do not give your strength to women, your ways to those who destroy kings. (De 17:17; 1Ki 11:1; Ne 13:26; Pr 5:9; Pr 7:26)4It is not for kings, O Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine, or for rulers to take strong drink, (1Ki 16:9; 1Ki 20:16; Pr 20:1; Ec 10:17; Ho 4:11)5lest they drink and forget what has been decreed and pervert the rights of all the afflicted. (Isa 5:22)6Give strong drink to the one who is perishing, and wine to those in bitter distress;[2] (Job 3:20; Job 29:13)7let them drink and forget their poverty and remember their misery no more. (Ps 104:15)8Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are destitute.[3] (Job 29:12; Job 29:15; Isa 1:17)9Open your mouth, judge righteously, defend the rights of the poor and needy. (Le 19:15; De 1:16; Ps 40:17; Ps 86:1; Pr 31:20; Isa 1:17; Jer 22:16)
The Woman Who Fears the Lord
10[4] An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. (Ru 3:11; Job 28:18; Pr 12:4; Pr 18:22; Pr 19:14)11The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.12She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.13She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands. (Pr 31:21; Pr 31:24)14She is like the ships of the merchant; she brings her food from afar.15She rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household and portions for her maidens. (Ps 111:5; Pr 20:13; Lu 12:42)16She considers a field and buys it; with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard.17She dresses herself[5] with strength and makes her arms strong. (Pr 31:25)18She perceives that her merchandise is profitable. Her lamp does not go out at night.19She puts her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle.20She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy. (Pr 31:9; Ro 12:13; Eph 4:28)21She is not afraid of snow for her household, for all her household are clothed in scarlet.[6] (2Sa 1:24)22She makes bed coverings for herself; her clothing is fine linen and purple. (Ge 41:42; Jud 8:26; Pr 7:16; Re 19:8; Re 19:14)23Her husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders of the land. (Ru 4:1)24She makes linen garments and sells them; she delivers sashes to the merchant. (Jud 14:12; Isa 3:23)25Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come. (Pr 31:17)26She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.27She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.28Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:29“Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all.” (Pr 31:10; So 6:9)30Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. (Pr 11:16)31Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her works praise her in the gates.